Looking back, 2012 proved to be yet another good year. Being
a chronic-worrier-trying-to-look-calm-parent, I was trying to find a physical
outlet for Prem. He was average in most physical team sports like soccer,
baseball etc. I felt that pushing him into running at this age might seemed
like work to him and not play. So we focused on swimming. After getting Gold
Fish and Big Fish badges from Happy Fish, he passed the Swim Team test with
flying colors. He was unaware what he was getting into. From 30 minutes a week
of swimming to 4-5 hours a week swimming.
Before his first class, we promised to celebrate this
achievement at place of his choice. He wanted to go to Round Table Pizza. I
took him to class 5 minutes early and when coach said that warm up for 16 laps,
I knew this would be trouble. By the end of 1 hour session, when he came out,
he was so tired and almost in tears. We went to Round Table Pizza, and decided
to talk to coach next day. Most of the kids come little late anyway, and coach
was okayed to try out 45 minutes session for first week. We continued to bring
Prem 10-15 minutes late for couple of months, before he started to build his
endurance, and when summer rolled in, coach asked us to bring him on time, for
90 minutes sessions.
It is amazing how body adopts to regular practice. Things
which seemed impossible couple of months ago, one could do that with little
improvements every day. By end of summer, Prem was able to do a Swimathon; he
swam around 2 miles, to raise fund for his swim team. Thank you all for all who
contributed for this. Prem took two months break from Swim Team for
September/October, and then rejoined it. My observation was that his general
health improved greatly when he was swimming regularly and he was able to come
out of cold very quickly. It seemed he grew more tall, relatively, in summer.
As I write this blog, Prem could juggle two balls well and
getting proficient in Rubik cube. He likes doing Math. Needless to say he is
better than me in using Smart Phone. He figured out how to shot panoramic
photos and taught me on our recent trip.
Promila has been extremely busy with her PhD program. It has been very
challenging and satisfying for her at the same time. She continued to receive
scholarship and is a National Science Foundation GK12 Fellow.
I did my customary hike of Half Dome, with Sumit and Kumarthis year on Father’s day in June. Besides that, I did no major hikes. I ran
two Marathons in March and May respectively, and then reduced my weekly mileage
to 18-25 miles a week. I had no plans for running another race or Marathon for
the year. Running regularly, to keep healthy has become a habit now. And on
back of my mind I still had the goal of running sub 4 hour marathon. My
personal record for Marathon is 4 hr 11 minutes, set this year. I was not sure if I could run sub 4,
but that was the challenge for me for next year. Then through my running buddy
Dave, I met Jim, 66 year old runner in October. He had 3 hour 9 minutes
marathon after 60 year of age.
Jim changed my perspective about training, and gave me few
ideas to try. I could stay with him for 5 K, but longer distances, I did not
have the endurance to keep up with him. I started seriously taking his ideas,
and with just 4 weeks of training, I ran 5 K in Turkey Trot and set up the PR
at 21:25. Though some of the ideas were counter-intuitive, like run slowly,
even intervals, but they seemed to be working. I have been running faster races
and almost no recovery time. Keeping my fingers crossed, and hope to continue
my training for another 6-10 months before thinking about Marathon. I was glad
to have Prem run 0.5 mile at Turkey Trot with me this year. And it would be a
big parenting challenge in 2013 to get him to run with me on some of these
weekend runs on track. Promila, also is getting committed to exercise. With her
PhD qualifying exam over finally this year in October, hopefully, she will get
regular in training.
We took a summer trip to Lassen Volcanic National Park,
Crater Lake National Park and Redwood National Park. Whole family thoroughly
enjoyed this week long trip, and learned quite a few new things from Rangers
program. In winter we took last minute vacation to Sacramento, Death Valley
National Park, Hoover Dam and Las Vegas. Sacramento trip was educational trip
for Prem to learn about birth of California due to Gold Rush, Railroads and
their significance in trade for California and rest of the country, State
Capitol and Sutter Fort. We enjoyed staying in RV with Kumar and Shubha family.
Prem did try his hands in gold panning.
Death Valley had the lowest point in Western Hemisphere (282
ft below Sea Level). We were pleasantly surprised to see Zabriskie Point,
Golden Canyon and Scotty’s Castle. Prem rolled around in sand dunes for couple
of hours and we were fortunate to walk on rim of somewhat active Ubehebe
volcano there. Dante’s Peak, Borax
mining works and history behind Scotty’s castle added to charm of Death Valley.
After spending couple of days in Death Valley, we headed to
Las Vegas. I was surprised to see innovative new slot and other machines in
Casinos based on background themes of popular old and new Hollywood movies and music
groups. There was no doubt about amount of money the spent in R&D. Normal
person, like me, does not stand a chance to win, end up feeling good in spite
of losing. Vegas trip is not complete without watching at least one show. It
was difficult to find age appropriate kid friendly shows. We settled for Blue
Man group show. And all three of us enjoyed it thoroughly, show was musical, witty
and was very interactive with audience. Prem understood the advantage of Casino
and wanted to find out if there is a University where they teach about
gambling. We spent a day at Hoover Dam, and then headed back to Bay Area to
spend new year eve with Som/Swapna. Photos and more Photos
All in all, great year with some real growth in areas we
wanted to grow in. We feel blessed and fortunate.
Dude... this is awesome.. unbelievable... Prem swam 2miles?? How amazing... and how old is he?? Did he wear a wetsuit? Certainly under 10, right? That mileage is a challenge for me even after all this Ironman conditioning.. very impressed at the all-round performance by the family.
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Wonderful writeup Maneesh, as always i enjoy reading your blogs. Indeed 2012 has been eventful and hectic, i guess with the current scenario it is never going to be smooth sailing. It's so heartwarming and wonderful to read up on Prem's amazing achievements. Swimming is really a good workout for the kids. Saw the pics, they are nice and you sure had a good Vacation time. Thanks for sharing your moments with us. Wish you a happy and a prosperous new year.
ReplyDeleteImpressed with Prem's feat.Keep it up and enjoy . Maneesh ,no one can be a better coach than you. All the best
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ReplyDeleteCongratulations Maneesh and family on an inspiring year in 2012! Thanks for sharing your story. Kathy Fassler
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Maneesh. It is a great achievement in the busy life. Have to catch up 1:1.
ReplyDeleteHappy new year.
Jit